A Dash of Expectations

Why do you read nov­els? What do you think about while read­ing? How does your rela­tion­ship with a book change over time? These, evi­dently, are mat­ters of con­cern to sci­en­tists. The study queried 500 aca­d­e­mics to help define the traits of char­ac­ters in 200 Vic­to­rian nov­els. The results of this research indi­cate that lit­er­a­ture both mir­rors and shapes a culture’s ideals. Leav­ing aside a num­ber of flaws in its method­ol­ogy, I at first thought the study’s con­clu­sion was rather obvi­ous. Then I recalled a num­ber of con­ver­sa­tions I’ve had, or over­heard, in which it was revealed how lit­tle most read­ers glean from a novel, and how lit­tle they want to glean.

No marrow-sucker, the typ­i­cal reader. Who in these har­ried times can spare the hours nec­es­sary to pon­der such things as why a char­ac­ter chooses a par­tic­u­lar course of action over another? Who, between Amer­i­can Idol and Danc­ing With The Stars, can string together enough con­sec­u­tive thoughts on said char­ac­ter to won­der what said choice might mean? And who, indeed, might think, while sit­ting in traf­fic between cell phone con­ver­sa­tions, how that character’s decision-making process might be brought to bear on some dis­tant choices we will some­day make right here in the real world?

Yet Oprah tells us to read. We read also, if we are feel­ing ambi­tious, for book clubs. Some­times we luck out and a novel is adapted into a movie, so we can con­dense the many hours of read­ing and of nuanced sto­ry­telling into a tight lit­tle 2-hour film (3, if we’re feel­ing epic) for which we don’t even have to turn the pages. We study books in school, where we learn to neatly cat­e­go­rize heroes and vil­lains and to iden­tify irony and phal­luses. Even younger, we learn from fairy tales a num­ber of lessons in what is right and what isn’t.

To rec­on­cile these two impulses–the impulse to skim that today’s media teaches us and the impulse to suck just the tini­est morsel of life’s mar­row and thereby learn some­thing from a decrepit old book–I sus­pect the typ­i­cal reader reaches for the sim­plest lit­er­a­ture avail­able. Hence Harry Pot­ter. Hence John Grisham and Dan Brown. Assum­ing that most of these over­sim­pli­fied are sim­ply remixes of bet­ter, more pow­er­ful sto­ries, I do not begrudge these read­ers their books. There are other read­ers. There are bet­ter books. To each his own.

It took me some time to real­ize the long-term reper­cus­sions of set­tling for these diluted sto­ries. I read in another study how a num­ber of clas­sic fairy tales are being cen­sored or down­right for­got­ten by par­ents. Lit­tle Red Rid­ing Hood? Too graphic. Snow White and the Seven Dwarves? Not polit­i­cally cor­rect. The same goes for Rapun­zel, and Cin­derella, and even the tale of the poor, gor­man­dized Gin­ger­bread Man.

This com­pli­cates mat­ters. If we will­ingly bowd­ler­ize (and thank you, Dr. Bowdler) the nov­els we read as adults, our tastes and tem­pera­ments change over time until what was palat­able to us as chil­dren becomes far too bit­ter to pass on to the next gen­er­a­tion. Even­tu­ally chil­dren will see the world from a per­spec­tive first blunted, then atro­phied into solip­sism. I shud­der to think what they’ll read their kids at bed­time. If there are still books.

If they are very lucky, these chil­dren of the future won’t have any deci­sions to make, won’t face any chal­lenges. They would be sin­gu­larly ill-equipped for it. Pro­tect­ing chil­dren from fail­ure is not a model they will find any­where in the real world, which they will con­front long before par­ents are pre­pared for it. Expos­ing a very young per­son to things he or she won’t under­stand, fear­some things, even, is the whole point, I would think. So why are the Broth­ers Grimm no longer per­mit­ted their dark-edged tales? If we learn from the start that some things are not to be dis­cussed, not even to be thought of, then how do we ever become capa­ble of chal­leng­ing ourselves?

3 comments to A Dash of Expectations

  • I agree with every sin­gle word. Maybe I can help shed some light on the chil­dren part of your writing.

    As a mom of a 5-year old, part of me can under­stand com­pletely why we want to pro­tect our chil­dren from scary things. After all, when you have a small crea­ture for whom you would will­ingly lay down your life, the urge to pro­tect him or her from every small fear becomes overriding.

    At the same time, I have a hard time under­stand­ing this impulse. The desire to lay down one’s life for one’s kids, yes. The rest? Well, I’ve always felt my job is not to pro­tect him from every bump and scrape, but to help him become the best per­son he can be. That includes let­ting him expe­ri­ence things that might be a lit­tle scary, or con­fus­ing, or sad. My job isn’t to stand between him and life, but to help him under­stand it and make his way through.

  • Thanks for the parental insight. I tried to shy away from pass­ing judg­ment on the choices a par­ent makes; there are jus­ti­fi­able rea­sons for any such deci­sion. I don’t expect to have chil­dren but I can see why a par­ent would want to pro­tect a child from scary things. I can see why a child would wel­come that pro­tec­tion. As with most things, it is the degree to which these impulses are pur­sued that deter­mines whether or not a parent’s inter­ven­tion on behalf of a child is warranted.

    The prob­lem is that the cycle I described in my orig­i­nal post isn’t lim­ited to the inter­ac­tions between par­ents and their own chil­dren. It spreads. This week a Toronto father is upset that his 17-year-old son is read­ing The Handmaid’s Tale in school. This book and many oth­ers are peren­nial tar­gets of attempted cen­sor­ship, and I am thank­ful there are tire­less defend­ers of every­one else’s right to explore new and chal­leng­ing ideas.

    It’s bad enough when par­ents try to set the aca­d­e­mic cur­ric­ula for all stu­dents, but yes­ter­day I was reminded what’s worse: a teacher who seeks to shut down the study of dif­fi­cult sto­ries. An Eng­lish teacher in Wash­ing­ton wants to strike The Adven­tures of Huck­le­berry Finn, Of Mice and Men, and To Kill A Mock­ing­bird–all of which he acknowl­edges are clas­sics with much to offer–for the sin of con­tain­ing the “N-word” in the age of Obama. Nev­er­mind that Obama him­self has called for and ini­ti­ated a frank dis­cus­sion of race. Nev­er­mind that the Eng­lish teacher’s stu­dents are high school sopho­mores and juniors osten­si­bly capa­ble of under­stand­ing the dif­fer­ence between this day in his­tory and those past. These books should be struck down, he says, because it’s too hard to explain their mer­its to either stu­dents or their par­ents. We ask much of our teach­ers. Granted, they should not be the sole cul­ti­va­tors of young people’s ideas. But when we’ve reached the point that even they are too frus­trated to bother shin­ing a light on truth, it’s time to reassses how we arrived here.

  • As an avid reader, it pains me when I see peo­ple doing things like this. It’s one thing to be afraid to talk about these top­ics your­self; but to impose that fear of ideas on other peo­ple, espe­cially young peo­ple, is crim­i­nal. And to do it when it’s one’s job to help young peo­ple think about these ideas — well, those are peo­ple who really are in the wrong profession.

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